In considering the problems that you and your wife are
experiencing, the House of Justice points out that the unity of your family
should take priority over any other consideration. Bahá'u'lláh came to bring
unity to the world, and a fundamental unity is that of the family. Therefore,
we must believe that the Faith is intended to strengthen the family, not weaken
it. For example, service to the Cause should not produce neglect of the family.
It is important for you to arrange your time so that your family life is
harmonious and your household receives the attention it requires… Family
consultation employing full and frank discussion, and animated by awareness of
the need for moderation and balance, can be the panacea for domestic conflict.
(From a letter dated 1 August 1978 written on behalf of the Universal House of
Justice to an individual believer; The Compilation of Compilations, vol. II,
Women)
