The Local Spiritual Assembly of the Bahá’ís of … U.S.A.
Dear Bahá’í Friends,
Your email letter dated 4 December 2011 seeking
clarification of the law of engagement for the Persian believers in your
community has been received by the Universal House of Justice, which has asked
us to respond as follows.
To assist you in your efforts to educate the friends about
the law of engagement, the following comments may be helpful. Bahá’u’lláh
states in the “Questions and Answers” section of The Kitáb-i-Aqdas: The Most
Holy Book, number 43, that “it is unlawful to announce a marriage earlier than
ninety-five days before the wedding.” ‘Abdu’l-Bahá has provided further
explanation:
“Following the agreement for marriage and its official
public announcement, that is, when all the friends, relatives, and kindred have
been informed that the two parties have been betrothed, the period of
engagement must not exceed ninety-five days, during which marriage should take
place, and the verses be recited, and the dowry paid. Although it is forbidden
to exceed the ninety-five days as this is an act of disobedience to the Law of
God, the marriage contract should not be revoked on this account.”
Thus, the period of ninety-five days begins when the couple
have agreed to marry, the consent of the parents has been obtained, and the
intent to marry has been officially announced, that is to say, made known to
members of the families and friends of the couple.